How does one succeed in life?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What was your worst experience while living with roommates?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What is the best/cute/funny/playful chat/conversation between brother and sister?

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

When do you start "growing old"?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

That's it for today.

Why are the bands Smashmouth and Nickelback often used as punchlines?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I want to touch my sister’s boobs. What do I say?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why is the left keep misrepresenting what Trump said about his daughter? When asked if he would date her if he weren’t her father, it simply reflected pride in raising a smart, respectful, and loving daughter with good morals all men want that no?

Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do most men who date ugly women brag like it's some big accomplishment, when any guy can pull an ugly woman?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

My marriage is fixed. My future husband repeatedly calls me to meet me in private and pressure me to have a relationship. What should I do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Can you make a fake K-pop group? It can be with any idols.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do so many people seem to hate Nickelback? They're competent and entertaining, and while they certainly aren't the absolute best music, they're still a fun listen.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The Labour Party wants to put the Winter fuel allowance and the £800,000 of gifts received by ministers behind us. Is this a real option for the people who will suffer as our new masters unapologeticly feast on freebies?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.